Does using large dildos ruin your sex with your husband? I was curious how many girls have used dildos that are much bigger than there husband or boyfriend. I bought my wife a large one a few months ago. I'm fairly large but this one definitely trumps me. she loves it and i love watching her with it but I wonder if she uses it too much will it make it difficult to enjoy regular sex with me. Just looking for any serious input on this from anyone who has had experience. Not interested in funny, annoying, or derogatory comments. |
It's bigger, newer, and different. Different doesn't have to mean bad.
The toy is never going to say I love you, snuggle up to her, make her feel better when she is sick, or from a sexual stand point, It can't pull her hair and smack her ***.
If she's using it and watching you enjoy her using it, she's probably getting of on that, more than the toy itself!
A little background- my hubby and I were only married a short time when I decided to sell toys at home-parties. Neither of us had ever used them before, I just wanted to make extra money. When he saw my starter kit, he was about ready to pack up and leave. He immediately assumed I no longer needed him because I'd have access to all these toys. What we have learned is, for us, toys have never become a replacement, but an ENHANCEMENT to our sex life. It's a very rare occasion that I use toys without him.
Oh- and as far as her "getting too loose", the vagina always returns to it's normal size, the muscular contractions that happen during orgasm see to that. So unless she's given birth in the past 20 minutes, she is the same size she was when you met. She can also do kegel exercises to maintain tightness. |
Where do girls buy dildos from; I have never seen one in my life nor any shops that sell them? i was watching a tv documentary about loadsa girls using them and started thinking where the hell do they buy them from as you dont see them in shops |
| well if you are in the UK, Ann Summers shops are probably the biggest seller |
Are dildos safe for girls to use? Just wandering, I know they eventually make girls less sensitive but I wanted other opinions |
i really dont think they would be so widely marketed if they werent safe. i presume the biggest health risk is that someone wouldnt take proper care of them (clean-wise).
make girls less sensitive? pssht. thats a laugh. i doubt that. |
Why do girls never wash their toys after using it? dildos,vibrators,etc, it must stink?speaking from a point of view. |
| Well, I've never had a sexual toy start to smell bad, but I always tried to clean mine at least once a week. Not as often if they didn't used all that frequently, but still after at least three or four uses. However, my favorite kind of toy is a bullet vibrator. The ones I prefer using don't have any soft surfaces that can absorb smells, since they're just plastic. I wipe them off after each use and that usually takes care of it. Many toys are made of similarly non-porous materials that won't hold scents. They should be cleaned periodically, however, even if they seem perfectly fine. |
Does using toys while masturbating loosen your inner walls? (girls only please)? if i masturbate around once a day and use dildos and stuff will that make my vaginal walls really loose? and will that make it less enjoyable for a guy if i ever have sex with one? ((im leaning towards lesbian)) or does that mean my muscles are stronger? |
| Using a dildo is not any different than having sex with your boyfriend all the time, it will not stretch your vaginal walls. |
What do you girls enjoy more? Im just takin a survey, not askin for favors. But to get the best orgasm, and comfort, do you girls enjoy it more using a dildo, or do you enjoy it more when having actual sex with your man? . And if you girls get satisfied others ways other than sex and toys, what other ways do you enjoy yourselves? Guys can answer aswell to tell about their womans. Thanks for answering! |
| incorporate toys with sex and create a much higher orgasm |
Is it wrong if a guy watches porn while he has a gf? obviously no man will think it's wrong. but I do. I don't want my boyfriend fantasizing about other girls, whether he will ever meet them or not. Yeah, girls can use dildos, but it's nothing like porn because you can't be fantasizing about the 'person' in a video or whatever. hard to explain. this is my friends situation, by the way. |
| No its not, your using some other way than your partner to get off. You can't handle it, thats your problem. She uses toys, I watch porn. I fantiasize about different hair. you use something that vibrates, has two heads and is the size of my arm. Sorry, its just as bad |