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How to get my mom to just ease off on me? So, first of all, I'm 14, so at that age, I'm obviously no angel. Sure, i admit, i talk back to my mom, sometimes don't clean my room when she asks me to etc. But I'm no "rebellious" teen. I get an above 90% average, got accepted into a gifted literature program that people all around the my country audition for, I've never smoked or done drugs, I don't drink alcohol, I never skip class. One time, my mom went on my facebook, and found a picture of me in jean shorts, and a t-shirt (the T-shirt wasn't even "revealing") She started screaming at me, took away my laptop (and later broke it) called me a "slut" saying I'm going nowhere in life if i continue to act like such a whore. (and many other sweet mother to daughter compliments) On a Friday night, she caught me awake at 1:30am (not even that late) talking to someone on msn on the family computer. She freaked out. Said she was kicking me out, that i could live on the streets for all she cared, and that I'd be forced to work minimum wage jobs for lack of education, live in a dump full of murder and crime, and not have enough money to "pay for some f*cking internet service to continue your stupid talking with your so called friends". I then, told her to "shut the hell up" , so she replied by pulling the chair out from underneath me, telling me to god to bed, or hit the streets. She says that if I'm not out of the house by 18, she'll make me pay rent, or kick me out if i don't get a university scholarship that pays for 100% my tuition. If i get 94% on a test, her first reaction is to yell "what the hell happened to the other 6%, what dumbass mistake did you make to blow that?!" I've just grown soooo tired of having nothing to look forward to, but to come home to my mother calling me a b*tch, throwing something at me, and telling me she wishes she'd had an abortion with me.
My mother and I have never been close. When i was a guy, i had sleep paralysis hallucinations.(THE most terrifying experience of a lifetime, for those who aren't quite sure what it is) After the "episode" I'd go into her room crying, and she'd just scream at me for waking her up, and literally drag me out of her room, push me into the hallway, and lock her door. So, obviously, there never really was a "mother-guy bond".
And it's not like i can just run to my dad for this. For his job, he gets stationed in many different places around the globe, so I usually talk to him on the phone once a week, and see him for 3-6 days about 3 times a year. My other relatives are all kind of estranged, except for my grandma on my mom's side, but she's in and out of the hospital with bad health problems, so living with her isn't really a realistic option.
Is it possible to "approach" my mother about this??? Should i just tough it out for the next couple years, and leave everything behind once i've got a driving license, and a bit of saved money? I've really just had it. My mom is making me clinically depressed--I'm having horrible thoughts i shouldn't be having, I just need help with what i can do to fix this???
--Thanks in advance to anyone who gives some sort of advice. I really do appreciate it.-- | | well first off i wanna say u seem like a very bright girl with a good head on her sholders for being so young. you should be proud to have turned out as well as you have growing up in the home you have. and to be honest your very young to be on your own you are to smart to drop out of school to get a job to take care of your self. just stay out of her way avoid her as much has possible hun and tuff it out untill you get a car she wont be abel to do much about you driving. just be sure you get a car with your own money and in your own name so she has nothing to hold aginst you. leave when ur 16 if you want, but be sure you keep your self straight girl sorry this is not very goos advise. but stay strong sweety. god bless |
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